Most of them will think this sentence, "What if..." before making any decision no matter it is important or just a single mingling thing in their life. This sentence really make one really uncomfortable or I should in this sentence, do not confident in their decision-making ability. Perhaps a person should be in clear state of mind on what they really want, what they want to do in the next step and so on.
Take for example, a guy is buying a new car. He will need to think all the aspect before purchasing a car. First of all, he will need to identify and very sure of his financial status; whether it is stable or the opposite. If is stable; the guy to choose between new car or a second hand car. In his mind, if he choose to buy a new car, he will think about this sentence; "What if the value of the car drop drastically? What if the car spare parts is very expensive? What if....." and the list will go on and on. This is the basic mindset of many people possess unless he is a very rich guy that he spend his greens like no tomorrow.
For gal, they will think about this question when they go for a shopping spree. When they about to purchase something either for themselves or anyone, they still will have the same mindset as the example above. In a shop, they will keep looking for some good quality and cheap price, when grab an items that grab their heart, they will stare at it and the mind will be spinning with the question; "What if he don't like the shirt? What if he hates the color? What if they do not like to eat this tidbits? What if...." and the list goes on.
Most of the people do not feel confident always and that is the problem for them to do some make some decision on their own. For me, to overcome this problem, I will have a clear state of mind on what I want and what I want do to. After identify them, I will see the needs and later make my decision on something. That is how confident really grows in me and without a doubt, I will not regret to the actions that I had done or things that I purchase.
So guys, be confident in what ever you do.
Cheers.
~ on a slightly different subject of matter.... but well.. its still the same point.... you know what I mean... ~
What if there was no lie
Nothing wrong, nothing right
What if there was no time
And no reason, or rhyme
What if you should decide
That you don't want me there by your side
That you don't want me there in your life
What if I got it wrong
And no poet or song
Could put right what I got wrong
Or make you feel I belong
What if you should decide
That you don't want me there by your side
That you don't want me there in you life
Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right
Let's take a breath, try to hold it inside
Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right
How can you know it, if you don't even try
Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right
Every step that you take
Could be your biggest mistake
It could bend or it could break
That's the risk that you take
What if you should decide
That you don't want me there in your life
That you don't want me there by your side
Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right
Let's take a breath, try to hold it inside
Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right
How can you know when you don't even try
Ooh ooh-ooh, that's right
Whoa~ What wrong with you dude? Sound so fishy with those phrases there...
~ hahaha.. i knew it u would have say so.....
its actually the lyric from the song "What If" by coldplay... reading ur entry suddenly reminded me of that song... check it out dude.. maybe u might find it nice... cheers.. ~
I was predicting that hanz might put the coldplay song lyrics here due to the topic title and yes he did,haha...btw,hanz,thx for the lyric,hehe..